All my life I've been told that God can't love me because I'm different (gay, lesbian, bisexual) how can God love me? Why does your church believe differently?

What is the fundamental message of the Bible and Gospel of Jesus?
As Christians, we believe the Hebrew Scripture is a divinely inspired revelation of God's covenant with God's chose people, and a relevant study of Hebrew history. Above all, it is part of a continuing story and promise of redemption. Additionally, as Christians, our law is from Christ and that law is the Law of Love. Its cornerstone is the two-fold commandment to "love God and love your neighbor as yourself."  
  Neither Jesus, nor Paul, nor any of the New Testament Scriptures imply that Christians are held to the cultic or ethical rules of the law of Moses. Paul clearly taught that Christians are no longer under the Old Law (Galatians 3:23-25); that the Old Law is brought to completion in Christ (Romans 10:4); and its fulfillment is in love (Romans 13:8-10, Galatians 5:14). Jesus did deal with human sexuality in an open and unthreatened manner. He affirmed on one hand the goods of marriage, but also declared marriage is not for everyone (Matthew 19:3-12). Furthermore, the Bible does not record one word spoken by Jesus condemning homosexuality.
For more information on this subject, visit the UFMCC website and select "The Bible". Then you may download or read on line the following brochures.
 
 Our Story Too.. Rev. Elder Nancy L. Wilson
 
 The Bible and Homosexuality Rev. Dr. Mona West
 
 Homosexuality: Not A Sin...Not A Sickness Rev. Elder Donald Eastman.